How do you know if you are living a good life? Well, it is a matter of perspective.
Everyone has their own vision of 'the dream life'. We all strive to turn our dreams into reality. As many of us grow older, we realize some of our dreams will never be achieved. This is when we adjust ourselves into having more feasible dreams that we can eventually turn into reality.
The problem is, some people can handle change better than others. For some, the realization that a dream will never be achieved can make that person feel like they are inadequate. It can leave their life meaningless and uneventful. These types of people tend to have a more pessimistic perspective of life.
The people in this world who can deal well with their dreams being crushed, have a better perspective on life than the others. These people will be able to get up off their feet, and start a new dream without hesitation. They understand their life has meaning and as long as they are alive, they will make sure that life will be eventful for them. These people are the optimistic people in the world.
The point is, the value of your life is not based on whether or not you can achieve your dream and reach your goals. The value of your life is solely based on how you perceive your own life to be. Your life cannot be measured by the successes or failures in your life. It cannot be measured as to how you interact with others. Nor is it based on how others perceive you. The only way you can measure your life, is by how much of an effort you have made in your life, understanding the circumstances that you have been in.
There are some people in this world who are pessimistic. Many of them do not understand their own life value. The optimistic people in the world understand that their life is the most important and valuable of all, because it is their own life.
This is not suggesting that life is as easy as 1, 2, 3. There will be rough patches in everyone's life. Over the course of a lifetime, your matter of perspective can make all the difference to the value of your life. It's all a matter of perspective. If you feel that there is a lot of negativity in your life, change it, focus on the positive and it will change your outlook on life greatly. Like I said, it's all a matter of perspective.
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